When I first moved to Vienna I was overwhelmed by the enormous amount of hot women out there and how easy it was to sleep with them. One night stands became part of my everyday life and I got really excited and crazy about it. In Argentina these things don’t happen, I was just shocked! Loved it and my friends home couldn’t believe all the stories I had to tell. How this could happen to me? What is so different from Argentineans and Austrians? Those were the questions I asked myself every day.
One good day I met this guy who made it everything clear. He, from Kosovo, told me “You will notice that the more advanced the country is, the easier the girls are to get.” In Kosovo, still in Europe but very backwards, he said, women were very hard to sleep with. In Vienna and beyond, on the contrary, it was much easier. He was right, for I could see and experience that myself. But why?
It all lies on the mentality of these women. Women from richer countries have a different mindset, they are more liberal. The reason for that lies deep into their psychology: in those countries, the social role of women is exactly the same as men’s. We are, in their eyes, both equal. Equal not just in rights, as that’s practically something universal right now, but in the way we are looked by society.
In Argentina or Kosovo, or we could also say in Southern Italy or Spain, a guy who is with many girls is a pimp, a winner. Do you think it’s the same with our women? Not at all! Those women who kiss many men or meet someone special in a club are immediately labeled by the society as whores. And if they happen to sleep with someone they don’t really know, the condemnation will be much bigger and scandalous.
This is not like that in Vienna or in those other places where the concept of equality is deep inside women’s minds. There women believe that there’s no difference between them and men. They won’t find it wrong to sleep with many men, it’s not socially condemned and thus casual sex and one night stands just happen. Women there don’t feel conditioned by anyone and don’t have any prejudice against sleeping a random guy they happen to like. They will find it normal as we men find it. Women also love sex, much more than men, so they will just go forward with it.
It’s the same when it comes to approaches. I slept with a lot of girls in Northern Europe because I was one of the only guys in the clubs or bars actually approaching them. Men just don’t do it there, or just very little. Why? Because women have taken the lead it’s them who actually approach men. Sometimes guys just spend hours in the mirror to look their best and wait in the club to be approached by women. Pathetic in my eyes, but with women as those it works. Women don’t have a prejudice to approach a random man they like, as they do have in my country and perhaps yours.
Bear this in mind when you travel or meet someone from a different country. It may well happen that you will be impressed by how different foreign women could be. Make sure to make the most of it!
