Women are masters of body language – both ways. They can communicate just what they want and read you as if you were a book. There are few, if any, things we can hide from girls.
While that may terrify a few boys, there’s a big bright side into it. Knowing the right ways to show interest and the subtle things girls want you to do will give you a big advantage over the more inexperienced guys.
Here are a few tips for you to start:
1- Make Eye Contact. Lots of it, especially when she’s speaking. While you’ll be tempted to check out her breasts, legs and so on, keep your eyes on hers. It will show her you are interested.
2- Smile Often. Smiling will make her feel you are confortable around her – it’s all for the good feeling. You don’t need to smile all-date-long, but do it every now and then to keep the spirit up and not to make her feel you lost interest.
3- Don’t Fidget With Objects. Don’t start breaking papers, playing with candles, etc – unless you want to make her feel you are nervous or uninterested, that is. Keep your hands in check, and just use them for the storytelling, touching (that a bit later in the date!) and for general conversation.
4- No Crossed Arms or Legs. If you have your arms or legs crossed, girls will have the feeling you are not open, too serious and as if you didn’t want anything between you and her. It just makes it seem like that, so it’s a top recommendation to avoid this.
5- Mirror Her Movements. Don’t exaggerate – you are not a mimic. But sync with a few of her movements. If she rests one of her hands on the table, subtly put yours too. Same when she turns to face you, do the same. Do it subly, calmy and it will make her feel more comfortable.
6- Don’t Stay Distant. Lean a little closer when you are speaking with her – try to slowly make things a bit more intimate. Move progressively closer and she’ll likely do the same. Do this as a way to break tension and slowly escalate.
While all this may look very simple, there’s a huge potential into it. Once you start to become a master of your body language and to pick up what girls want you to do, your success rate will go only up.
