Dating Danish Women


Sylvie van der Vaart Meis

Just moved to Copenhagen, Denmark – finally! That’s the main reason behind the lack of updates – planning the trip, then apartment hunting, going out and starting life in such a different place is taking most of my time and energy.

But I’m not here to tell you my impressions from Copenhagen or travel experiences – no. What I’ll write this time is what I think and my experience with Scandinavian girls so far.

I’ll speak for Danish girls, but you can most likely draw the same conclusions for Norwegians and Swedish – they are not the same but still very similar.

As always, generalizations are never good. While I’ll give an overall opinion or point, there are obviously tons of exceptions!

It’s Not a Myth – Girls Are REALLY Beautiful

Valkyries, as one good friend pointed out – in reference to the mythological Nordic deities. And it’s not all about blonde and tall girls – it’s just that they are all good looking. It’s no less than incredible.

Their faces look neat – tidy, sexy and with just everything right. Add to that spectacular hair (blonde, black, brown and red all look good), deep bright eyes and a lovely white, soft and delicate skin.

Bodies follow suit – both tall and shorter girls have nice breasts, good butts and seductive legs. They eat well, do plenty of sports (people cycle everywhere here) and are blessed with good genetics. The outcome is perfect – at least when they are young!

They Are Equals to Men

Or even more manly than men are. I touched this topic a while back, but I constantly notice that girls in North Europe act more like men and guys act more like girls. Here girls approach guys, and guys spend hours grooming themselves in the bathroom before going out.

Weird to me – normal here. The conclusion is that just by approaching a girl you’ll be standing out. Back in Argentina it would be normal for me (and any other guy) to approach 10+ girls a night. And that’s a short, short estimate. Here people were scandalized when I told them what I did back home.

The ‘surprise effect’ of approaching girls here gives anyone doing it a big advantage. Girls won’t tell you to ‘die’ or ‘fuck off’ like they do in Argentina even after you only said a simple ‘hello’. If you come up with the right lines or look fun and easy going you’ll be off to a good start.

Approaching Outside Clubs Works Best

Being a foreigner always has benefits when it comes to flirting. I abuse of my Spanish/Italian English accent and it gives me terrific results. By some reason girls love it and I show it off everywhere.

That, along my will to learn the language (something special, as I’m the only one who cares about learning Danish among my group of friends) makes me a good choice for a ‘coffee’. And you know what happens when coffees go good: they turn into beers, dates, etc.

The trick is to be nice and fun all times. It’s all about saying ‘hi’ enough, smiling lots and making comments that will brighten the girl’s days up. It costs nothing and nobody does it – it’s perfect to stand out in the positive way.

They Are Cold – But Not THAT Much

I have only been here for ten days, so I can’t give a decisive opinion on how cold girls are here. But they are certainly warmer than I expected.

And, unlike Germans and other Central Europeans, they are not completely useless when it comes to cooking and doing household things – something that at least I consider important in a woman.

It’s a nice surprise. As hot girls could be here, I can never consider them potential girlfriends if they are not a bit hot blooded. I’ve been raised to like one way of living and like that way of living. I can compromise for a bit less – I don’t demand girls to be perfect, but I certainly want them to be women.

That’s all for now – hopefully I’ll have lots of new insights and more to tell you in the coming weeks. I’ll push myself hard – you need to be here to see how gorgeous these girls are!