Every first kiss is unique, powerful and very inspiring. In most cases it becomes the first intimate impression women have from you, so you got to make it the very best. A good kiss usually means a faster way to bed, while a bad kiss can definitely ruin your chances with ease. In the following guide I will explain which are some of the points that make a kiss special, and what must all men do in order to be remembered as great kissers.
Look and be kissable
Dress up nicely, have a nice breath and your lips in shape. Those are three things anyone who wants to be kissed should know from the very beginning. It’s simple, but many men just don’t realize how important they are. Don’t eat garlic or onion before going out, and always have a couple of mints with you to tackle bad breath. Balm your lips if they are broken or destroyed, and always be presentable, well dressed. Put yourself in a woman’s feet and think, Am I kissable? The answer must be an outright yes!
Use your hands
It’s true that when you kiss, the main protagonists are your lips. Nevertheless, your hands play a very significant, if not vital, part in the whole story. You got to make the most from them, so use them and do it wisely.
When kissing, especially in the most passionate moments, I strongly advice taking one hand up to her head. Gently touch her face and let it rest in her hair. Then, while you kiss, slowly move it around – Grab and release the hair, always matching the rhythm and temper of the kiss. Make it romantic. As for the other hand, think of it as a joker: use it everywhere. Place it behind her back, make it hold her free hand too or also take it all the way up to the head.
Kiss her everywhere
A great and romantic kiss is not only focused on the mouth and lips. On the contrary, a good kisser knows how important is to tackle other parts of her head and body. The number one spot that all women love is their neck. Gently kiss her neck, going up slowly until you kiss her ears. Kiss her forehead, where her hair starts and even her nose.
Kiss everywhere but in the lips, build up to the great moment. Instinctively, women will get anxious waiting for you to kiss them in the lips. Make the most of that anxiety, build it up. Then, when the moment comes the kiss will be much more magical.
Kissing rhythm
Change your rhythm on the way, don’t be monotonous. Some moments will demand you to be aggressive, while in others you should be mild and calm. Calibrate to those moments your lips, hands and your tongue. Do small kisses and also long ones. Take the lead and let her take it too.
After kissing her for a long time, stop and look at her in the eyes. Smile, say something nice and hold her tight. Don’t be a machine, make her feel special. That’s why smiling, looking at her and speaking is also very important. Do it, inspire her.
Things to Take When You Go Out
You got to maximize your chances for anything you do in your life. Do this by practicing and being well prepared. Leave nothing left to luck. This includes when you go out to a bar or club too. Take with you all those things that will make your odds be as high as they can get.
Every time I go out I take a handful of things that one time or the other help me in my goals, whichever they are. Here’s what they are for me and why I recommend you to take them too.
Camera
An easy pick, taking your camera out is a must. Firstly because it will let you open up groups of girls with ease, capture great and funny moments and it’s one perfect excuse for you go ask girls’ contacts and for them to ask yours.
Secondly, you should load your camera with very best photos of trips and great moments. That way you can show and tell guys and girls excellent anecdotes of yours. Don’t go telling every random girl you meet “Hey, look, I was in Russia” but if you have the possibility of casually doing it at some point in time, it will raise your value.
A ring and a neck-chain
I never go out without these two. They are the perfect excuse for almost everything! I have a couple of cocky and funny stories around them that I have invented. They are funny and well thought anecdotes that guys and girls love to hear. I always look for right moment to tell people about them.
Think your own stories and make them work towards your goals. I got one story of mine, showing a very emotional and sensible side for when the girl thinks I’m too tough. And vice versa, I got the tough guy’s story when the girl thinks I’m too sensitive. The ring has saved me many times and it can help you too!
Other Indispensables
Always have mints or some kind of candy with you; you never know when you will really need them. By no chance in life you want to destroy all what you have done because of a simple bad breath. Also, always go out with enough money and condoms too. You might need to use them at one point or the other, even if it’s completely unexpected.
Value
As a general rule, take those things that will help raising your value. If you can do some great magic tricks, take them with you. If your stuff is drawing, take a small notepad and pencil with you too. Don’t overdo it and take that many things, but still take those that will help you in your goal. As I explained, it’s all about maximizing your chances.
Every time I go out I take a handful of things that one time or the other help me in my goals, whichever they are. Here’s what they are for me and why I recommend you to take them too.
Camera
An easy pick, taking your camera out is a must. Firstly because it will let you open up groups of girls with ease, capture great and funny moments and it’s one perfect excuse for you go ask girls’ contacts and for them to ask yours.
Secondly, you should load your camera with very best photos of trips and great moments. That way you can show and tell guys and girls excellent anecdotes of yours. Don’t go telling every random girl you meet “Hey, look, I was in Russia” but if you have the possibility of casually doing it at some point in time, it will raise your value.
A ring and a neck-chain
I never go out without these two. They are the perfect excuse for almost everything! I have a couple of cocky and funny stories around them that I have invented. They are funny and well thought anecdotes that guys and girls love to hear. I always look for right moment to tell people about them.
Think your own stories and make them work towards your goals. I got one story of mine, showing a very emotional and sensible side for when the girl thinks I’m too tough. And vice versa, I got the tough guy’s story when the girl thinks I’m too sensitive. The ring has saved me many times and it can help you too!
Other Indispensables
Always have mints or some kind of candy with you; you never know when you will really need them. By no chance in life you want to destroy all what you have done because of a simple bad breath. Also, always go out with enough money and condoms too. You might need to use them at one point or the other, even if it’s completely unexpected.
Value
As a general rule, take those things that will help raising your value. If you can do some great magic tricks, take them with you. If your stuff is drawing, take a small notepad and pencil with you too. Don’t overdo it and take that many things, but still take those that will help you in your goal. As I explained, it’s all about maximizing your chances.
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