People You Should Never Sleep With

There are some women in this world with whom you should never even think on sleeping with. They could become those adventures you’ll regret for countless days, if not more! No matter how much in love you are or how beautiful you think they are, the best would be for you to restrain. It’s all a matter of avoiding unnecessary conflicts and trouble.

Family

Ok guys, there are more than three billion women in this world. Out of those many, if you go and pick one of your family it’s just plain stupid. It’s a matter of morality – you just don’t have to! It’s odd, unnecessary and could bring a lot of problems. Perhaps it would be fine for you, but think on the rest of the family too and how many problems and conflicts something like this could start.

If you got some heart and care about what your parents, grandpas and everyone else thinks and feels, just restrain yourself. Out of all those women, just don’t go for your family. Don’t go and bring conflicts into the very heart of something of such an importance. It’s in the end, not worth it!

Co-workers

You should also never sleep with one of your co workers. It’s a time bomb that could explode when you least expect it to. If you value your career be careful with this! In Argentina we have this saying that roughly translates as “Don’t do shit where you eat,” and it’s meant to be applied in something such as this. Sleeping with a co worker could not only jeopardize your career, but you should also think that you’ll see that face for eight hours every day. Is it worth it?

Unless you are very much in love, it’s definitely not. The cons greatly outnumber any pros you might find. To add more troubles, also think about all the gossip and bad talk that you sleeping with your college might spur. I don’t know what do you think, but I believe that, despite I don’t give a damn about what everyone else thinks, to have rumors and gossip going on about me all over the place is just stupid and, over all, annoying. I don’t like it and I think it’s something to be avoided.

Friend’s Girlfriends or Exs

If you sleep with one of your friends’ girlfriend, you are an asshole and a very bad person. Wise men say thatwomen come and go, but friendships are meant to last forever. I pretty much agree on that and think that no woman, NONE, is worth destroying an important friendship. And mind, you’ll actually destroy any friendship if you go sleep with a friend’s girlfriend or some important Ex.

This is the case where I would omit giving any exception. Even if you are very much in love with a friend’s girlfriend, keep your head in place. You sleep with her and you’ll only make your friend hate you, you will lose the respect of your other friends and you’ll end up with a woman you know is a bad person too. Absolutely not worth it.

Roommates

Though it may not have consequences as terrible as the first three, sleeping with one of your roommates is a very bad idea. The relationship with your roommates should always be as excellent as it could be – after all, they are the people who you share your place with. Sex could and will bring problems and possible conflicts into the atmosphere.

Wouldn’t you, in the end, feel odd bringing some other girl home if you already slept with one of your roommates? Even if you don’t, she will. It’s better to have roommates as great friends who you have a deep connection with, but just not sexual. Rather restrain yourself and make it clear from the beginning that you wouldn’t do it.

Conclusion

Don’t let your dick control your head. Follow your heart, but bear in mind the consequences your actions could have in the future. It’s really worth to destroy and bring problems into your future because of a bit of horniness? Think always about the abundance of women and just pick someone else!

Displaying Lower Value – Being a Loser

In many past articles I insisted on the concept of value and how important it is for you to raise it. I taught you different techniques and ways you achieve this and, as a consequence, become more attractive to women. But this time we’ll work on the other end of the deal. I’ll focus on which of your manners get your value down and thus kill the attraction you want to create. There’s no point in you becoming a great storyteller or a great cook if you keep taking your value down!

Overall, there’s one big value killer: the constant seeking of approval. Any low value man will be in a permanent search for approval and recognition from the others. This search for approval is shown off when you keep justifying, keep explaining and keep apologizing for your actions. It’s when you look needy and when you really care about what others think of you.

The truth is you don’t need to give a damn of what anyone else thinks of you. You don’t need THEM to approve your actions, nor to tell you what’s good and what’s wrong. You need to have your personality in place! So be sure of yourself and of what you believe – only apologize, justify and thoroughly explain your actions when you really, really fucked something up.

The other big value killer is the lack of social proof. Perhaps you are perfectly dressed and you are a great looking man, but if you are just one more dog in the pack, you won’t be as successful as you want. Who do you think is more attractive to women: a man who approaches, is charismatic, a leader and goes straight to the front or a man who is shy, nervous and, in the end, just one more guy in the group? Obviously, the first is more attractive! You got to be that first man – If you are man number two, your chances will be slim. Fortunately, this site has a lot of material that can help you becoming more like man number one. You could start by checking the articles on becoming a good speaker and also the one on charisma, for instance.

Finally, a low value man will also show off his lack of social proof by having a low voice volume in public, few friends, very weak body language and by not keeping consistent eye contact. You need to be exactly the contrary. You need to show you can withstand social pressure and that you are not intimidated by the role of the leader. You need to make the world see you are there, that you are actually a stand out of the crowd!