How To Get More Comfortable With Women

In the past, I’ve explained you how you could, through some real life exercises, start overcoming your shyness.Now we are going to go further down the road and get you much more comfortable approaching and speaking with women. Again, we’ll achieve this through simple and practical ways. And this will be easy – all you need to do go for a few hours to the mall or, if your city doesn’t have one, to some busy commercial street.

Before you get going with these simple techniques, I suggest you to read the article on becoming a good speaker and knowing how to get dressed. They’ll give you a plus and get you more confident from the very beginning. So, now into the tasks… Once you get to the mall, you’ll have three things to do and keep doing for the whole of the time you are there.

The first one is to get eye contact with any good looking woman that walks by you. Look directly into their eyes and keep contact until they look away. Don’t do this in a creepy, mysterious way. Be natural and don’t exaggerate, but just look at them. This way you’ll start getting more comfortable and used to keeping eye contact with women. It’s especially important for you to achieve this! Not only it will help your overall pick up performance but it will also get your confidence naturally higher.

Second, you’ll have to get inside every shop and speak with all the saleswomen. Enter men’s stores and go straight to them. Ask them which clothes they think suit you better, etc. Also, enter any women’s stores and speak with the sales girls too. Tell them you got this girlfriend away and that she is visiting you soon. Tell them that you want to impress her with a new dress – so make them recommend you something. Do this in the shops the mall has. The first couple of times you might be shy and maybe unnatural – But keep doing this until you get really comfortable.

Finally, the last thing you should do is to stop any woman you see in the corridors and ask her if she knows where/in which floor a certain store is. It doesn’t matter if the mall is full of maps and instructions, just ask her. The goal is not to pick these girls up, but to at least establish a short conversation with them and to get comfortable with approaching strangers. So, as soon as you get inside the mall go ahead and ask. Do this several times and you’ll see results coming.

As a conclusion, remember that if you want to get comfortable and become successful picking up women, yougot to do a lot of hard work. Even if you find this boring and you are not willing to spend your days off doing this, mind that success won’t come alone. You have to be fully dedicated and the more energy and commitment you put into it, the faster will the results come. So get down to the mall and start getting these things done! It won’t take long until you see the first results!

Learning From Movie Characters

There are some memorable movie performances that you should watch and imitate. After all, you can definitely learn a lot from movies. Not only about culture and history – You can also learn to become more attractive to women. The way the some characters walk, how they speak and what they inspire in women are all things you should take a look at.

Below is a list of five of these movie characters. These men are successful with women in their movies and would also be in the real world. Why? All of them, in one way or another, have a unique trait that makes them strongly attractive. I’ll analyze this trait and show you how you could achieve it yourself. Now, take the path you would like the most of all! The article may contain spoilers – be careful!

James Bond (Daniel Craig) – Casino Royale

An easy pick, right? Bond always got the girls he wanted. Without being especially handsome nor being someone with a lot of natural charisma, he still always got the highest prized women. But it’s not his MI6 00-Agent role or his license to kill what make him all he is. It’s the manhood he inspires.

In Casino Royale’s specific case, we see how a first hard-to-get woman with a very strong personality (Eva Green) finally falls to Bond. Yet it’s not his lines (which, by the way, are quite good) or his reputation what make her fall for him. Instead, it’s the safety he inspires: the feeling of making her feel protected and in good hands. He holds her tight, looks at her into her eyes, always looks in control and, above all, he has an overwhelming confidence in himself.

You don’t have to be Bond to have all these qualities (though it would be cool to be him, right?) But this manhood and confidence is also present in thousands of others. Some men, even in the most simple situations and moments make their woman feel safe, in good hands and protected – just like James Bond does. You could do that too.

Watch the movie, analyze and imitate Daniel Craig. Be the character! Also, these two articles will give you a hand becoming even a bit more like James Bond: Overcoming shyness and becoming more comfortable with women.

Indiana Jones (Harrison Ford) – Raiders of the Lost Ark

Another superhero – My personal favorite this time! Indy is fantastic. The guy is a handsome university professor who in his free time goes in search of amazing treasures, ancient lost cities and a bit of Nazi ass-kicking. He is definitely a woman’s dream. He is a synonym of protection and manhood too, but not as much and in the same sense Bond is. The true nature of his awesomeness is his adventurous personality.

Indy promises adventure, promises and inspires women to see the world, discover fascinating mysteries and, in the end, have a much more interesting and fulfilling life. You can do that too! And, honestly, you don’t need to go to the tropical jungles of Peru to have a bit of adventure. You can bring adventure into your and her life at any moment – you just have to focus on it! After all, just imagine how mediocre most men are – offer a bit more and you’ll be already into some serious deal.

As with Bond, watch this movie and get a bit of inspiration! The article on unique and amazing first dates gets straight to the point in adding adventure to your relationships.

Don Juan (Johnny Depp) – Don Juan DeMarco

This is a special movie with a couple of very special characters. If you haven’t watched it already, buy it! Depp plays this guy who truly believes he is Don Juan, the world’s greatest lover. He is so confident in himself and on the amazing pleasure he can give to women that they actually start falling for him. He arouses them and makes them feel more women – acting as a total sexual master.

Women love good sex and will be poised to fall for personalities like this. Make a woman feel she’ll find amazing pleasure in you and you’ll have a hit in the making. Be open about it. Don Juan tells these women, with confident and seriousness, that they would never leave his arms unsatisfied. He promises the greatest pleasure they’ll ever experience. But this won’t only attract women; it will also help you keeping them. A woman may be much less willing to leave you if you make her feel a queen in bed.

Watch the movie, get a Don Juan attitude and make a commitment with yourself on becoming a master of the arts of sex. I strongly suggest you to read the about oral sex and giving amazing pleasure as well as how to become a better lover.

Edward Bloom (Ewan McGregor) – Big Fish

This guy is the ultimate symbol of charisma and ambition – you just got to love him. He is a successful young man, with lots of guts and loved by everyone. He’s always positive, with a big smile and he wins the hearts of lots of ladies. Once he finds the one he wants to settle with, he does the impossible to get her attention, taking her from another man and finally conquering her heart in an amazing way. He adds flavor to everything he says – becoming a magical story teller.

The more like Edward you are, the more successful you’ll be with women. He is spontaneous, energetic, open and also inspiring. But, above all, he is ambitious. He gets what he wants – and women feel attracted to men like that. The more you are like him, the more successful you’ll be with women. Of course that’s not easy to achieve all this – but you certainly can if you commit and give hard work to it.

If haven’t already, you definitely have to watch the movie. It’s funny, lovely and full of amazing quotes. As for the suggested material, you should check on how to become a great storyteller and how to be charismatic.

Jesse (Ethan Hawke) – Before Sunrise

Jesse is, unlike the other four, a normal guy as I am or you could be. He is not necessarily charismatic, strong and neither is a master lover. But there’s something special in him – he is full of magic inside. Out of the blue he invents, along with the great backup that is Celine (Julie Delpy), a unique night in a unique city (I LOVE Vienna, in case you didn’t know.) For the short period of just hours together Jesse and Celine create a bond that will last for the rest of their lives. He achieves this by making the moment together a unique and unrepeatable adventure.

He convinces her to get down from the train with him and spend the night together wandering off the streets of Vienna. Though at the beginning two strangers, they manage to build together one of the most memorable romances in film history. They achieve this talking deep, sharing experiences and inspiring one another to make the moment unforgettable. They fall in love and make of it something neither of them will ever forget – no matter how many others will come.

That is all what romance is about. You have to make the time together something she’ll never forget, and inspire her and change her from the inside, so once she meets you it will be a before and after moment in her life, want it or not. I feel really indentified with Jesse because I’m that kind of guy and experiences like this happened in my life. But the truth is that you have to look for them, you have to work hard because they just won’t come alone. Search for this opportunities and be prepared to be a great man to make the most of them.

I had written about this movie before and I’ll keep doing it in the future. It’s just fantastic. If one movie changed me, it’s this one. So better watch it guys! Read as well the article on making your girlfriend never forget you – it goes into this but a bit deeper.