How to Be the Perfect Boyfriend

There’s no secret on how to be the perfect boyfriend. The trick, the silver bullet, is and has been there for long. It turns out, though, that most men decide to foolishly ignore it.

This is, you MUST make your girlfriend feel special. You MUST make her feel the one and only.

If she feels this way, you are guaranteed a happy relationship.

People (and girls) need attention and to feel loved. Most people are naturally insecure, and if you tackle this problem you are going to immediately stand out.

This all fits within the psychology of attraction. Girls, no matter how independent, still need to feel protected.

A charismatic, alpha guy wins because he makes the girl feel, in her deep subconscious, that she’s protected from threat. A good lover takes this one extra step – protecting her from her own insecurities and emotions. He makes a connection so deep that she just feels right.

Few men ever TRY to get to this deep emotion, and that’s where you can really stand out. There’s always one more charismatic, alpha guy she can feel attracted. However, there are few, if any, guys that will make her feel great from the inside.

This doesn’t mean you have to be a hyper sensible, emotional type of guy. No – you need to be the alpha guy PLUS make her feel unique. Be that guy and girls will never want to leave you.

3 Easy Ways of Making Her Feel Special

1- Choose the Right Girl

I can’t say ‘I love you’ to a girl I don’t really love. I can’t make a girl feel special if she’s not. You’ll find the same dilemma – if you are with someone who is not your fit, all this won’t work.

And here’s where most problems arise – most people just never choose right. It’s ridiculous, but guy’s and gal’s obsessions with not being alone is most times what dooms relationships from the start.

If you are with a girl you really like and love all this will come in NATURAL. It will make the road much, much easier for you.

2- Say It

You won’t make girls feel special if you don’t speak.

Tell your girl how great she is – praise her, compliment her, tell her she’s beautiful and always tell her how much you love her. It will never get old. NEVER.

3- Show Love in Public

If you don’t show love in public, the girl might think “there’s something wrong with ME, and that’s why he doesn’t want to kiss me in front of people.” Women REALLY think that – and they feeling you want is the complete opposite.

Make girls feel that it’s all great with them. If you kiss, hold hands, hug or do some other spontaneous gesture of love in public, you’ll be taking the steps in the right direction.

How to Know if a Girl Likes You: Attraction Signals III

Girls will let you know when they find you interesting. Sometimes it will be direct, but usually, instead, they’ll make sex signals and wait for you to catch up. Watch out for them – most times they mean you are on for business.

The Shoe Dangle

Girls use their shoes and feet as a way of subtle communication, and this is a very important part of their body language.

By dangling shoes or just playing around with their shoes, girls send a strong message, meaning that they are comfortable and relaxed, while also leaving the door open for further undressing.

Also, it’s no news that most men find female legs and feet attractive – a $300+ billion business a year in footwear and girl’s obsession with shoes make sense, as in one way or another they lead to get us men attracted.

Framing the Vagina

Sometimes, a girl will place her hands in a subtle, but sexually aggressive way – framing, usually over a pair of jeans, her vagina (picture). This is usually mistaken for a male gesture, and most times ignored.

It is, however, a very strong signal. She’s then spelling-out what’s on her mind, and telling you that that is the part of her you should pay attention to. Think of it as an (most times) unconscious way for her to tell you “keep going, you are getting close”.

Gently Touching/Preening Her Hair

This doesn’t mean just playing with her hair, which was the first of the signals I wrote about and one of the most famous. It’s about the gentle preen of her long hair, all in a slow luxurious, slow motion and in a sensual fashion. The goal is to catch a bit more of your attention and to tell you she’s attracted to you.

The signal is the opposite of the hair pull or tug – when girls strongly pull their hair they indicate discomfort and the will to be somewhere else (or with someone else!) It’s easy to spot the difference, as this pull comes usually in an aggressive fashion.

Exaggerated Body Language

Watch out for exaggerated body language – it’s an obvious but very important signal you always need to notice. Often, the girl’s goal will be to emphasize her best trait (breasts, bottom, legs, hair) and to make an exaggeration out of what would else be a subtle signal.

It’s more common when you are at a bit far from her, and acts as the girl’s way of getting your attention and telling you ‘’come closer to me’’. It will most likely appear in large meet-ups and public spaces, when the less exaggerated sex signals often come unnoticed.

Don’t expect much of this on a one-to-one date- and if, she’s just waiting for you to jump and kiss her!