You got to maximize your chances for anything you do in your life. Do this by practicing and being well prepared. Leave nothing left to luck. This includes when you go out to a bar or club too. Take with you all those things that will make your odds be as high as they can get.
Every time I go out I take a handful of things that one time or the other help me in my goals, whichever they are. Here’s what they are for me and why I recommend you to take them too.
Camera
An easy pick, taking your camera out is a must. Firstly because it will let you open up groups of girls with ease, capture great and funny moments and it’s one perfect excuse for you go ask girls’ contacts and for them to ask yours.
Secondly, you should load your camera with very best photos of trips and great moments. That way you can show and tell guys and girls excellent anecdotes of yours. Don’t go telling every random girl you meet “Hey, look, I was in Russia” but if you have the possibility of casually doing it at some point in time, it will raise your value.
A ring and a neck-chain
I never go out without these two. They are the perfect excuse for almost everything! I have a couple of cocky and funny stories around them that I have invented. They are funny and well thought anecdotes that guys and girls love to hear. I always look for right moment to tell people about them.
Think your own stories and make them work towards your goals. I got one story of mine, showing a very emotional and sensible side for when the girl thinks I’m too tough. And vice versa, I got the tough guy’s story when the girl thinks I’m too sensitive. The ring has saved me many times and it can help you too!
Other Indispensables
Always have mints or some kind of candy with you; you never know when you will really need them. By no chance in life you want to destroy all what you have done because of a simple bad breath. Also, always go out with enough money and condoms too. You might need to use them at one point or the other, even if it’s completely unexpected.
Value
As a general rule, take those things that will help raising your value. If you can do some great magic tricks, take them with you. If your stuff is drawing, take a small notepad and pencil with you too. Don’t overdo it and take that many things, but still take those that will help you in your goal. As I explained, it’s all about maximizing your chances.
Tips on Dating Women
Following is a quick list of very important things all men should know about women and dating. The kind of things that will help you attracting and seducing the girl you want. It’s short, concise and very accurate. Unlike the 25 Traits Lists, which you can find here and here, this list is more focused on them rather than you.
1- A good perfume is worth every cent. If you’re going to attract someone, you need to appeal to all the senses. And women love good cologne. Never go out without it!
2- If you don’t satisfy your woman in bed, you are up to serious trouble. Even if she really loves you.
3- Never believe everything a woman says. It’s a step into maturity to assume that if she has to lie to you, she will.
4- Women love chocolate.
5- Never believe your woman is the exception to anything. I can bet you everything in the world that she is not.
6- A woman who truly likes you is never too busy for you. But time is precious. If you want to take a bit out of hers, you better have something exciting to do.
7- Cuddling is important – It is something that helps bringing couples closer together.
8- The two biggest and universal physical turn offs for women are a very short man and a very small dick. All other cases can be fine, but looking the best you can will certainly help.
9- Never try to understand women. Don’t analyze and think too much about what they do, it’s not worth it.
10- Girls want to be taken. No one likes to be alone.
11- Always make your intentions clear from the very beginning – Be dangerous from the word “Hey.” That way, you won’t fall into the dramatic ‘Friends Zone’ right away. But at the same time, be playful and know that even if you like her, you are not dead for her and by no means someone who can be controlled.
12- Assume and have very clear that you’ll be rejected many more times than not. But, in the end, that’s not something that bad.
13- When you want a girl, to have her friend’s blessing must be your top objective. If they like you, they will be of enormous help and make everything easier for you. Also, especially for younger girls, to make her parents like you is even more important.
14- Being a good kisser will make your way to bed easier. So will if you are a good dancer.
15- Buying women drinks is not worth it. Don’t do it.
16- In class, at work, in the gym or in any social place you go to, say “Hi” all the time and to every girl. It will be of great help.
17- Never ask a woman “Would you like…” too often, but give her options. For example, tell her you want to go with her to a certain place at a certain time – But let her choose whether she prefers Saturday or Sunday.
18- Shoes are very important; always give some extra attention to them.
19- Women are attracted to leaders, ambitious, inspiring and confident people more than to anyone else.
20- Don’t leave women messages in the phone – Call until she answers. And, once she does, talk only to set up the date. Save the conversation for the date.
21- Never ask permission to do anything or say anything.
22- Women love the unexpected. Surprise them often and never be totally predictable.
23- Laughing is an aphrodisiac. Learn to be funny, to tell anecdotes and to entertain.
24- People love to speak about themselves more than anything else – It’s their favorite topic. So do women.
25- Never try to outsmart women. You’ll lose.
26- If you are going to touch a woman, do it from the very beginning and with 100% belief. If you don’t, it will be creepy.
27- Girls from richer and more developed countries are easier to get than girls from poorer, less developed ones.
28- Lead, even if you don’t know where you are going. Make an adventure out of everything and put emotion and charm into it.
29- Make things fun your YOU. That way you’ll make things fun for her too.
30- Tease. Do it playfully and laugh at her. Make those things that will make her playfully punch you. Don’t go as far as offending her or talking about her deep insecurities. And, unless you really screwed up, don’t say sorry.
31- As far as you are concerned, you are the coolest guy ever. Believe in yourself – There’s gold running out of your mouth. Offer value, have abundance mentality and be confident in yourself.
32- Women love to give you advice on anything.
33- Desperation repeals women.
This list will be constantly updated with new tips from you, the readers, and also from myself. So stay tuned! And, of course, you are invited to leave in the comments section your thoughts and ideas about the subject and whether the ideas here have helped you or not!
1- A good perfume is worth every cent. If you’re going to attract someone, you need to appeal to all the senses. And women love good cologne. Never go out without it!
2- If you don’t satisfy your woman in bed, you are up to serious trouble. Even if she really loves you.
3- Never believe everything a woman says. It’s a step into maturity to assume that if she has to lie to you, she will.
4- Women love chocolate.
5- Never believe your woman is the exception to anything. I can bet you everything in the world that she is not.
6- A woman who truly likes you is never too busy for you. But time is precious. If you want to take a bit out of hers, you better have something exciting to do.
7- Cuddling is important – It is something that helps bringing couples closer together.
8- The two biggest and universal physical turn offs for women are a very short man and a very small dick. All other cases can be fine, but looking the best you can will certainly help.
9- Never try to understand women. Don’t analyze and think too much about what they do, it’s not worth it.
10- Girls want to be taken. No one likes to be alone.
11- Always make your intentions clear from the very beginning – Be dangerous from the word “Hey.” That way, you won’t fall into the dramatic ‘Friends Zone’ right away. But at the same time, be playful and know that even if you like her, you are not dead for her and by no means someone who can be controlled.
12- Assume and have very clear that you’ll be rejected many more times than not. But, in the end, that’s not something that bad.
13- When you want a girl, to have her friend’s blessing must be your top objective. If they like you, they will be of enormous help and make everything easier for you. Also, especially for younger girls, to make her parents like you is even more important.
14- Being a good kisser will make your way to bed easier. So will if you are a good dancer.
15- Buying women drinks is not worth it. Don’t do it.
16- In class, at work, in the gym or in any social place you go to, say “Hi” all the time and to every girl. It will be of great help.
17- Never ask a woman “Would you like…” too often, but give her options. For example, tell her you want to go with her to a certain place at a certain time – But let her choose whether she prefers Saturday or Sunday.
18- Shoes are very important; always give some extra attention to them.
19- Women are attracted to leaders, ambitious, inspiring and confident people more than to anyone else.
20- Don’t leave women messages in the phone – Call until she answers. And, once she does, talk only to set up the date. Save the conversation for the date.
21- Never ask permission to do anything or say anything.
22- Women love the unexpected. Surprise them often and never be totally predictable.
23- Laughing is an aphrodisiac. Learn to be funny, to tell anecdotes and to entertain.
24- People love to speak about themselves more than anything else – It’s their favorite topic. So do women.
25- Never try to outsmart women. You’ll lose.
26- If you are going to touch a woman, do it from the very beginning and with 100% belief. If you don’t, it will be creepy.
27- Girls from richer and more developed countries are easier to get than girls from poorer, less developed ones.
28- Lead, even if you don’t know where you are going. Make an adventure out of everything and put emotion and charm into it.
29- Make things fun your YOU. That way you’ll make things fun for her too.
30- Tease. Do it playfully and laugh at her. Make those things that will make her playfully punch you. Don’t go as far as offending her or talking about her deep insecurities. And, unless you really screwed up, don’t say sorry.
31- As far as you are concerned, you are the coolest guy ever. Believe in yourself – There’s gold running out of your mouth. Offer value, have abundance mentality and be confident in yourself.
32- Women love to give you advice on anything.
33- Desperation repeals women.
This list will be constantly updated with new tips from you, the readers, and also from myself. So stay tuned! And, of course, you are invited to leave in the comments section your thoughts and ideas about the subject and whether the ideas here have helped you or not!
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