Approaching Girls During The Day

Not so long ago I decided it was time for me to start approaching at unconventional places. Buses, subway, the street, libraries, stores and supermarkets, just to give a few examples, are all enormous possibilities. After all, during the day I see much better looking women around – and the competition is far less numerous. Few people dare to approach during daytime and that’s something great. What they do in the end is just to leave the way clear for us.

Still, the reality is that it is really hard to make those first approaches and to start doing this seriously. There are a lot of prejudices and a lot of fear. It’s just not normal to be doing this and feels naturally awkward. But the goal is to get over it and start taking advantage of all the possibilities approaching during the day opens.

What I first realized is that when approaching women in these unconventional places there are two important things to take into account:

1- You have to inspire safety.
2- You have to be as natural as possible.

Inspiring safety is a vital point. If you don’t do it, you’ll create unnecessary tension and you will most surely end up failing as well. How safe is for her to speak with you is directly related with your appearance. Make sure to be well dressed, clean and don’t be wearing anything that could label you as creepy.

Then, be careful choosing where and when to approach. A dark alley in the late afternoon and with few people around is not the best spot and I guess you kind of understand why. Instead, you should focus on approaching in an environment that would look safe to her. A park, a bus full of people or a well-lit store are a few examples.

But safety is not enough; it’s kind of an absolute necessity for you to start. Once you have it, the trick is to be natural. It would be normal for you, me and everyone to be nervous in situations like these ones, but you got to be as natural as possible. Do as if you would be speaking with a friend or someone you know. The best way to do this is to approach fast! The more time you take to approach the girl you want, the more nervous you’ll get. You just have to forget about everything and go forward.

Then, as for the approach itself there are another group of important things you should take special attention to.

Be direct - Most of the internet says that the best way to approach women during the day is by saying some small thing about the environment, making some cute anecdote or, in the end, giving some indirect talk. The truth is that they are all wrong. In these kind of situations nothing is more effective than being direct. Don’t do small talk, don’t take girl’s time saying some random comments. Get straight to the point: you think she is cute and you had to meet her. Speak about her, make her feel important and, above all, comfortable.

Be positive – And by all means, don’t play defensively. One girl might come and tell you “Do you usually do this?” or “Do you always approach women in the cafe?”. In this case, just say that yes, you do. Be natural and keep playing her game. Be positive, smile and give value. That’s the key. As soon as you get in a defensive stance, your options will start waning.

Failure is an option – Not every girl you approach actually wants to be approached. Few have boyfriends, another couple are just uninterested in meeting you and a last few just won’t like you. So assume that rejection will happen. It’s certainly embarrassing to be rejected in public and in front of many other people, but it’s all worth the risk.

Practice is the key – As in every other skill, picking up girls is all about practice. Your first street approaches might be a big failure. I still remember the first couple of times I tried and how horrible it was to be sent away. But never give up and keep going, keep practicing and you’ll get better at it. It’s not easy to become one dangerous man during the day, but it’s actually not that hard either. If you seriously want to do this, put objectives. Approach at least one woman in an unconventional place everyday. If you can, approach even more. But do it! Practice and make a habit of it!

This is the general theory and my experience with approaching women during the day and at unconventional places. In the coming weeks I’ll be posting tips and guides focusing on every specific place and what I believe are the best strategies to take. Guides on flirting in the subway, the shopping mall, in the park and so on will be coming soon!

How To Give Women Amazing Pleasure

Why you have to give women good oral sex

Many men underestimate the importance and benefits of giving good oral sex. Good foreplay, we can all agree, can potentiate sexual relationships and make the whole ritual even much more enjoyable. Cunnilingus is a must have skill for all men, as it’s easy to do and the benefits are huge. Also, it’s a great way to differentiate from all those other men who don’t do it – Men who don’t realize the big pleasure it will bring to both you and your couple.

Mind, good foreplay cannot hide the fact that the actual penetration is the most important part of sex. It’s not really just a matter of pleasure – as that depends on the woman – but instead it’s a matter of manhood. Women want to be penetrated and to feel the most rustic and animal part of sex. No matter how good you are with your tongue, you got to make the other part right!

But still, great oral sex gives you enormous advantages. First, you surrender your desires just to give pleasure to the woman. If you know to press the right buttons, that pleasure can be gigantic – maybe the best orgasms she will ever have. As I said, many women have stronger stimulation in the clitoris than with penetration itself – Make sure to give them both!

How is the best way to do all this?

First, remember that for good sex you have to be spontaneous and adventurous. The actual act of sex might always end up in the same – But you got to make the way towards it different, imaginative and absolutely unique. You could be slow or you could be fast, but make sure to make it something special.

A good approach, for example, is the following. Start by kissing her gently in the cheeks, behind the ears, in her neck and then continuing slowly down to her nipples, to her stomach to end up with one gentle and swift kiss in her clitoris and lavia. Then, continue your way down and keep kissing, now focusing on her thighs, legs, fingers and so on. Build up to the moment when you actually deliver the oral sex. Go back to her hot spot and for a few seconds and kiss her there again.

But don’t stay there just yet. Continue the kisses all around, make her slowly get more and more aroused.Do this by keeping the kisses going all over her body as well as using your hands to gently touch her. Touch her skin, her hair, her lips and also her clitoris when your head is somewhere else. Do this for some time and she’ll get really excited. To sum of to this excitement you should also touch her with your penis, almost as if it were involuntary, but you got to make her feel and see it. It will make her even more aroused.

Once she is really aroused, you can proceed to deliver persistent cunnilingus. Make sure to find the clitoris and use your tongue with ease. Invent – be gentle, calibrate the speed and don’t do always the same movements. Go up, go down, make swirls and make sure to also kiss instead of only licking too. Do it andmake her feel a star, speak to her and always use your hands to touch her and keep growing that excitement.

After a decent amount of time licking, kissing and touching her clitoris and lavia you can also penetrate with one or two of your fingers. Gently, slowly first and only if your fingernails are well-cut and clean, so as not to give her any pain – you have to give her pleasure and only pleasure. Build up to the moment when you actually penetrate with your penis.

Make sure to get a good timing. Do this for a considerable amount of time – ideally you could have her having one orgasm from it before penetration or at least have her very close it. But don’t overdo it either – Make sure that it’s not too little or nor too much. Remember to use your hands at every moment. If you want to stop licking and would like to kiss her in the lips on somewhere else instead, keep stimulating her with your fingers, so as not to lose the arousal. If you have your head down, use your hands to stimulate other erogenous zones as could be her nipples or neck, for example.

Always talk to her and ask her what is what she likes the most. Ask her how she likes it and what she doesn’t like. Make sure to follow her desires so as to make her the most pleased, satisfied and ultimately happy with you. If you think she is dirty or that there’s one problem with her that might make you not do this, let her know. You could get her pissed and angry for a couple of minutes, but it’s all worth it for her and you if you two can achieve a more successful sexual life.

Important: there’s a small, yet real chance that giving or receiving oral sex could transmit you sexual diseases as HIV. Because of this I strongly recommend you to be careful choosing with which women you would do this. For more information about this, you could check the articles on Wikipedia here.

Finally, sex, in the end, is a skill. The best way to get better at it, as in with any other thing you do, is practice. Once you have your woman try to see what works better, what doesn’t do well and try developing your own techniques. But always remember that the objective here is to make her have pleasure she will never forget.