Dating Danish Women

Just moved to Copenhagen, Denmark – finally! That’s the main reason behind the lack of updates – planning the trip, then apartment hunting, going out and starting life in such a different place is taking most of my time and energy.

But I’m not here to tell you my impressions from Copenhagen or travel experiences – no. What I’ll write this time is what I think and my experience with Scandinavian girls so far.

I’ll speak for Danish girls, but you can most likely draw the same conclusions for Norwegians and Swedish – they are not the same but still very similar.

As always, generalizations are never good. While I’ll give an overall opinion or point, there are obviously tons of exceptions!

It’s Not a Myth – Girls Are REALLY Beautiful

Valkyries, as one good friend pointed out – in reference to the mythological Nordic deities. And it’s not all about blonde and tall girls – it’s just that they are all good looking. It’s no less than incredible.

Their faces look neat – tidy, sexy and with just everything right. Add to that spectacular hair (blonde, black, brown and red all look good), deep bright eyes and a lovely white, soft and delicate skin.

Bodies follow suit – both tall and shorter girls have nice breasts, good butts and seductive legs. They eat well, do plenty of sports (people cycle everywhere here) and are blessed with good genetics. The outcome is perfect – at least when they are young!

They Are Equals to Men

Or even more manly than men are. I touched this topic a while back, but I constantly notice that girls in North Europe act more like men and guys act more like girls. Here girls approach guys, and guys spend hours grooming themselves in the bathroom before going out.

Weird to me – normal here. The conclusion is that just by approaching a girl you’ll be standing out. Back in Argentina it would be normal for me (and any other guy) to approach 10+ girls a night. And that’s a short, short estimate. Here people were scandalized when I told them what I did back home.

The ‘surprise effect’ of approaching girls here gives anyone doing it a big advantage. Girls won’t tell you to ‘die’ or ‘fuck off’ like they do in Argentina even after you only said a simple ‘hello’. If you come up with the right lines or look fun and easy going you’ll be off to a good start.

Approaching Outside Clubs Works Best

Being a foreigner always has benefits when it comes to flirting. I abuse of my Spanish/Italian English accent and it gives me terrific results. By some reason girls love it and I show it off everywhere.

That, along my will to learn the language (something special, as I’m the only one who cares about learning Danish among my group of friends) makes me a good choice for a ‘coffee’. And you know what happens when coffees go good: they turn into beers, dates, etc.

The trick is to be nice and fun all times. It’s all about saying ‘hi’ enough, smiling lots and making comments that will brighten the girl’s days up. It costs nothing and nobody does it – it’s perfect to stand out in the positive way.

They Are Cold – But Not THAT Much

I have only been here for ten days, so I can’t give a decisive opinion on how cold girls are here. But they are certainly warmer than I expected.

And, unlike Germans and other Central Europeans, they are not completely useless when it comes to cooking and doing household things – something that at least I consider important in a woman.

It’s a nice surprise. As hot girls could be here, I can never consider them potential girlfriends if they are not a bit hot blooded. I’ve been raised to like one way of living and like that way of living. I can compromise for a bit less – I don’t demand girls to be perfect, but I certainly want them to be women.

That’s all for now – hopefully I’ll have lots of new insights and more to tell you in the coming weeks. I’ll push myself hard – you need to be here to see how gorgeous these girls are!

How To Get More Comfortable With Women

In the past, I’ve explained you how you could, through some real life exercises, start overcoming your shyness.Now we are going to go further down the road and get you much more comfortable approaching and speaking with women. Again, we’ll achieve this through simple and practical ways. And this will be easy – all you need to do go for a few hours to the mall or, if your city doesn’t have one, to some busy commercial street.

Before you get going with these simple techniques, I suggest you to read the article on becoming a good speaker and knowing how to get dressed. They’ll give you a plus and get you more confident from the very beginning. So, now into the tasks… Once you get to the mall, you’ll have three things to do and keep doing for the whole of the time you are there.

The first one is to get eye contact with any good looking woman that walks by you. Look directly into their eyes and keep contact until they look away. Don’t do this in a creepy, mysterious way. Be natural and don’t exaggerate, but just look at them. This way you’ll start getting more comfortable and used to keeping eye contact with women. It’s especially important for you to achieve this! Not only it will help your overall pick up performance but it will also get your confidence naturally higher.

Second, you’ll have to get inside every shop and speak with all the saleswomen. Enter men’s stores and go straight to them. Ask them which clothes they think suit you better, etc. Also, enter any women’s stores and speak with the sales girls too. Tell them you got this girlfriend away and that she is visiting you soon. Tell them that you want to impress her with a new dress – so make them recommend you something. Do this in the shops the mall has. The first couple of times you might be shy and maybe unnatural – But keep doing this until you get really comfortable.

Finally, the last thing you should do is to stop any woman you see in the corridors and ask her if she knows where/in which floor a certain store is. It doesn’t matter if the mall is full of maps and instructions, just ask her. The goal is not to pick these girls up, but to at least establish a short conversation with them and to get comfortable with approaching strangers. So, as soon as you get inside the mall go ahead and ask. Do this several times and you’ll see results coming.

As a conclusion, remember that if you want to get comfortable and become successful picking up women, yougot to do a lot of hard work. Even if you find this boring and you are not willing to spend your days off doing this, mind that success won’t come alone. You have to be fully dedicated and the more energy and commitment you put into it, the faster will the results come. So get down to the mall and start getting these things done! It won’t take long until you see the first results!