The Hottest Girls Are Easier

Copenhagen, where I live right now, is full of beautiful women. It’s striking – I came back to the city after a short trip to Switzerland last week and was already wowed in the metro going from the airport back home. It’s that crazy.

In a context as this one, it’s hard to settle down with just one girl. Not that I practice polygamy – it’s just that there are SO many others that look gorgeous that it’s distracting.

It may sound like a joke but I invite you to Scandinavia to try it out yourself.

In these cases, more than ever, the solution is clear: you have to go for the best. It’s that or nothing – or else, your eyes will keep on moving.

And going for the best is easier than you might think. The most beautiful girls in town are not usually the most demanded. The unconvinced nature of the masses, who believe that they are ‘not worth’ such babes is what makes this work.

Generally speaking, doing the unrealistic is often easier than doing the realistic. It’s lonely at the top. People often aim for the mediocre – and thus it makes the competition harder and fiercer for the ‘realistic’ goals, thus making them harder and demanding of more effort.

In practical terms, it means that it will be easier to pick up the 5% most beautiful girls in town that it will be to pick up the next 15-20%. At least, many more guys will be trying their luck with the latter.

It could sound weird on a first glance, but it is really like this. You’ll see it every day – most guys believe they are ‘not that good’ to get the perfect ten in the bar and go and hit on the nice 7s and hot 8s. Check and see.

This is not a matter only confined to romance. With the same reasoning, fighting to raise $20,000,000 will be easier than to go for $500,000. There’s less people applying for top leadership roles than there is to lower level.

Give it a Try

This doesn’t mean that the most beautiful women will be easy. Yet, you might have way more chances that you might first believe.

Capitalize on the mediocrity of the rest and give a try to the very best. Walk up to the nicest girl in the club, bar or in the café – do what most others won’t. Do it often and you might well land yourself a very nice girlfriend.

You don’t need to act differently – just remember one thing: the beautiful girls KNOW they are beautiful. It’s obvious, but it’s what makes the leap between them and other girls. Act accordingly – and read this past articleabout the topic.

It’s up to you boys, go and catch!

How to Be the Perfect Boyfriend

There’s no secret on how to be the perfect boyfriend. The trick, the silver bullet, is and has been there for long. It turns out, though, that most men decide to foolishly ignore it.

This is, you MUST make your girlfriend feel special. You MUST make her feel the one and only.

If she feels this way, you are guaranteed a happy relationship.

People (and girls) need attention and to feel loved. Most people are naturally insecure, and if you tackle this problem you are going to immediately stand out.

This all fits within the psychology of attraction. Girls, no matter how independent, still need to feel protected.

A charismatic, alpha guy wins because he makes the girl feel, in her deep subconscious, that she’s protected from threat. A good lover takes this one extra step – protecting her from her own insecurities and emotions. He makes a connection so deep that she just feels right.

Few men ever TRY to get to this deep emotion, and that’s where you can really stand out. There’s always one more charismatic, alpha guy she can feel attracted. However, there are few, if any, guys that will make her feel great from the inside.

This doesn’t mean you have to be a hyper sensible, emotional type of guy. No – you need to be the alpha guy PLUS make her feel unique. Be that guy and girls will never want to leave you.

3 Easy Ways of Making Her Feel Special

1- Choose the Right Girl

I can’t say ‘I love you’ to a girl I don’t really love. I can’t make a girl feel special if she’s not. You’ll find the same dilemma – if you are with someone who is not your fit, all this won’t work.

And here’s where most problems arise – most people just never choose right. It’s ridiculous, but guy’s and gal’s obsessions with not being alone is most times what dooms relationships from the start.

If you are with a girl you really like and love all this will come in NATURAL. It will make the road much, much easier for you.

2- Say It

You won’t make girls feel special if you don’t speak.

Tell your girl how great she is – praise her, compliment her, tell her she’s beautiful and always tell her how much you love her. It will never get old. NEVER.

3- Show Love in Public

If you don’t show love in public, the girl might think “there’s something wrong with ME, and that’s why he doesn’t want to kiss me in front of people.” Women REALLY think that – and they feeling you want is the complete opposite.

Make girls feel that it’s all great with them. If you kiss, hold hands, hug or do some other spontaneous gesture of love in public, you’ll be taking the steps in the right direction.