Each one of you is special. We are all different and none of us will be attractive to women in the same way. Some are great dancers, others have traveled a lot and others may be great cooks. Which is YOUR skill?
This really matters because that skill you have will make a certain place, a bar or a mall, for instance, better for your game. So, as I explained with the best movies before, the best place to go and pick up is subjective. There will be a place that you and just you will be the most attracting man and some others where you would be the less interesting. The idea here is to get to know which is the place you should go to and to focus picking up there.
For example, if you a great dancer, would you go and pick up girls in the park? You certainly could, but your success rate would never approach that of you in a club or dance floor. Which aspect of your personality makes you the most attractive? For my case, I believe that I can charm the girls I want when I speak about culture and life stories. Not only I’m a guy they could spend a great time with but I’m also the best guy they could go and speak about culture with.
Then, where do I go? Cultural events, naturally. I meet girls the same tastes as I do and it becomes easy to get connected. They get impressed by all what I have to say and most of the times they want to go out with me and get to know me more. In that atmosphere is where I can maximize my value. You have to think where you can maximize yours. It’s not too hard; you just have to think about it a little.
You don’t need to be hours in the clubs every week to meet a woman. That’s a terrible mistake! There are women everywhere and all the time. You just need to do the approaches in the place you feel the most comfortable at. The place where you maximize your value will be the place where, at the same time, you’ll pick up the most girls.
How to Have a Better Relationship
It’s the duty of every man to make his girl feel the very best in the world, the one and only. Doing this helps to build confidence in the couple and bring happiness to both man and woman. Still, not many men understand how they can do this, even if it’s something simple and basic for many of us. Here are a few strategies you could use to make your woman feel better.
Show love in public
Showing love in public is a win-win situation. Kiss, hug and touch your girl openly, in front of friends and wherever you go. Make her sit on your lap, hold hands with her… Those are plain, easy and very enjoyable ways of showing love.
Perhaps you or she might be a bit shy about it at the beginning, but don’t let that stop you. It’s definitely something you have to do with any woman you love. This open showing of affections will make her feel safer in her feelings to raise her self esteem. Make her feel the one and only, not only by telling her but also by showing this love you have for her all the time and in every place.
Cuddle more
Cuddling is something that helps bringing couples closer together. In summer at the beach, in autumn under a shedding tree, in spring under the rain or in winter warm in bed, cuddling is just great. Just nothing can beat a close, naked cuddle anywhere and anytime.
Also, women need to be held and listened to, and cuddling is a perfect way of doing both. It’s an opportunity to spend quality time together, romantic moments and to share all the love you have for each other. For example, to feel each other’s hearts beating, while outside reins a big storm, is the kind of moment that will give a special charm and feeling to the couple.
Make love, not sex
As I explained extensively in this old article, sex, plain as it is and without its underlying magic, despite it can give big satisfactions, cannot create a deep bond inside the couple. Men must break the crude monotony of plain physical sex and mix it with romantic, horny talks as well a flood of emotions and fantasies.
Only then having sex will become making love. The power of love in bed will make the relationship go forward still when passion fades away. It’s definitely something all men should strive to do, as it also will make your relationship with her stand out from all the other ones she had before.
Show love in public
Showing love in public is a win-win situation. Kiss, hug and touch your girl openly, in front of friends and wherever you go. Make her sit on your lap, hold hands with her… Those are plain, easy and very enjoyable ways of showing love.
Perhaps you or she might be a bit shy about it at the beginning, but don’t let that stop you. It’s definitely something you have to do with any woman you love. This open showing of affections will make her feel safer in her feelings to raise her self esteem. Make her feel the one and only, not only by telling her but also by showing this love you have for her all the time and in every place.
Cuddle more
Cuddling is something that helps bringing couples closer together. In summer at the beach, in autumn under a shedding tree, in spring under the rain or in winter warm in bed, cuddling is just great. Just nothing can beat a close, naked cuddle anywhere and anytime.
Also, women need to be held and listened to, and cuddling is a perfect way of doing both. It’s an opportunity to spend quality time together, romantic moments and to share all the love you have for each other. For example, to feel each other’s hearts beating, while outside reins a big storm, is the kind of moment that will give a special charm and feeling to the couple.
Make love, not sex
As I explained extensively in this old article, sex, plain as it is and without its underlying magic, despite it can give big satisfactions, cannot create a deep bond inside the couple. Men must break the crude monotony of plain physical sex and mix it with romantic, horny talks as well a flood of emotions and fantasies.
Only then having sex will become making love. The power of love in bed will make the relationship go forward still when passion fades away. It’s definitely something all men should strive to do, as it also will make your relationship with her stand out from all the other ones she had before.
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